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self-centredness is NOT “self-care”: losing the human face online

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SELF HELP ME – Liz Miele FULL SPECIAL

**TAPING ANOTHER SPECIAL “SPACE CAMP” SEPT 15, 2024 in BROOKLYN. TIX HERE: https://www.eventbrite.com/cc/liz-miele-space-camp-special-taping-2019999

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self-centredness is NOT “self-care”: losing the human face online

gen z seems to have two opposing attitudes: 1) on a macro scale, we should make the world a better place; 2) on an individual scale, my needs come first before everyone else. why is that? how should we treat people in our individual interactions? let’s explore a history of western philosophy and see how that influenced self-centred attitudes of today.

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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 why is being nice a problem?
2:37 michelle’s tiktoks
4:34 background on western philosophy
5:50 hegel’s subject-object relation
8:41 emmanuel levinas: everything begins with ethics
15:30 isn’t levinas overdramatic?
15:55 an important side-note!
17:29 clarifying phenomenology
19:34 individualism & virtue-signaling
21:06 gen z’s macro vs. micro attitudes
24:38 gift economy vs. private property economy
28:04 online intensifies individualism
29:30 “i’m just brutally honest”
31:42 the nice woman
34:03 wanting validation is A-OK

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SOURCES:
Emmanuel Levinas. (1984). Ethics as First Philosophy.
Emmanuel Levinas. (1982). Ethics and Infinity.
Jean-Paul Sartre. (1938). Nausea.
Katouche Goll’s video: https://www.tiktok.com/@its.katouche_/video/7223516660160875781?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7047337325438076422
Kimmerer, Robin Wall. (2013). Braiding Sweetgrass.
Michelle’s videos: https://www.tiktok.com/@michelleskidelsky/video/7222817627742260486?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7047337325438076422

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Replying to @carhochil and no you dont have to be nice to assholes, but that doesnt mean you should BE an asshole to everyone

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